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In this episode of Radiant Pearl Living-RPL Live …

If you desire to evaluate, examine and be encouraged on the Topic of How To Be a Lady, then this episode is for you! 

Hello Radiant Pearl! I’m so glad you’re here! 

Here Are Five Points we will explore and answer today:

  1. What does it mean to be a lady?
  2. What does the scripture say about being a lady?
  3. To Be a Lady vs. To Be ALLuring
  4. Words to think about as a Lady
  5. How to Let The Lady You were meant to Be- Shine!

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Today I am honored to share with you a necessary topic of discussion at this hour and a topic so rarely discussed these days-How To Be A Lady! 

The first point we will examine today is:

What does it mean to be a lady?

  • [05:05]
    Classy, confident, graceful, fearless. Some may say fierce for you. What comes to mind when you hear the words you are a lady. When you hear the word lady, what picture comes to mind before your very eyes

    So let’s break this word down further, shall we, with specific scenarios and examples today? We shall.

What does the scripture say about being a lady?

  • [05:42]
    What does the scripture say and elect lady chosen by God in second John one verse 13. [05:53]
    We should be hospitable and exercise wisdom with truth and love. These are characteristics that the scripture tells us is what it means to be a lady and elect lady is who we all strive to be as exemplified in the word of God. The scripture also goes on to say, and now I beseech the lady not as though I wrote a new commandment unto thee but that which we had from the beginning, that we love one another. Do you see a theme there of what it means to be a lady and the role love plays in the characteristics the lady needs to have? [06:47]
    That is from second John one, verse five.

To Be a Lady vs. To Be ALLuring

  • [08:24]
    Can people see God in you in the way you walk, talk and live your life in church and outside of church when people are watching or when they are not? I want you to answer that question for yourself now
  • [08:45]
    We’re going to take the time to paint two very different pictures to be a lady versus to be alluring.
  • [08:55]
    Now, when I took the time to think about what these two very different pictures would look like in my mind, I thought of the lady by biblical standards and then by the world standards, alluring would mean are you attracting all everyone, ALL luring. [09:20]
    Are you trying to be attractive to everyone that is around you? [09:27]
    Are you trying to entice and to draw all sorts of people to you, or would you like to be set apart and chosen, called out? 

Words to think about as a Lady

  • [11:22]
    Now we are going to discuss words to think about as a lady. Brilliant, wise, remarkable, inspiring, thoughtful, disciplined, delightful, radiant, lovely, stunning, extraordinary, unique, splendid, dignified, mindful, honorable, trustworthy, hospitable, consistent, faithful, glorious, grateful, uplifting, hopeful, diligent, wonderful, lovable, virtuous, light hearted, respectful, charming, captivating, kind, positively you fearfully and wonderfully made fearless.
  • [12:22]
    These are all words to think about as a lady when you’re wondering and you’re going through moments where your inner is being challenged. I want to remind you, with my Mary Poppins umbrella that you you can do this. Yes, you can!

How to Let The Lady You were meant to Be- Shine!

  • [12:48]
    Now we’re at a portion of the presentation where everyone wants to know the answer to this question, how to let the lady you were meant to be shine. And I’m going to let you in on a little secret first.
  • [13:04]
    You want to know who you are in Christ, examine the person you are today and who you desire to be in accordance to God’s holy word. What does that mean? You need to dive deep into what the word of God says about you.
  • [13:23]
    Your identity is made firm and reassured in who you are called and meant to be. Let the word paint your picture and tell your story as a lady of grace. [13:39]
    That is who you are today. If you did not believe that about yourself in the past, I want you to reclaim that about your future, about your present, about your. Now, I am speaking that over your life today.


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So, Here is a Recap of what was discussed in today’s episode:

  • [13:57]
    And I am reminding you as a woman of excellence, as a radiant lady who has been destined to be just that, a lady who you should be was ordained from the beginning of time, you only have to ask the Lord to prepare you daily to be who you were always meant to be.
  • [14:22]
    Dear lady, you were called out for such a time as this, just as Queen Esther and those in the scripture that are exemplified and exude what it means to be a lady.
  • [14:38]
    They rose to the occasion. They were groomed and prepared for the moment in time. And you know what? It is not by coincidence that you are reading/listening/ watching this today.
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